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Did anyone tried to get rid of this fetish?

So im in relationship with perfect girl for me. I like her personality, humour, looks, ideas, she is really nice and kind to everyone. We are 1 year into relationships and both think this is going to be long term relationship, everything is going smoothly. Also she is normal weight around 130 and trying to loose little bit od weight(which i totally support). So i feel really guilty about having this fetish and fantasising sometimes about feeding her. I think she is gorgeous as she is rn but i cant help but think how would she look little bit bigger(she doesn't know i have this fetish im too ashamed to tell her, but she knows i like thick, curvy girls). So i come to conclusion i want to try to get rid of this fetish i think it will improve our relationship and i think i will feel much better if i dont have thoughts of fattening her up and encouraging her to eat. I always try to support her but this fetish sometimes hinders me. Does anyone have any similar experiences or know anyone that does? Have anyone tried to get rid of this fetish of knows how to?
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Did anyone tried to get rid of this fetish?

I don’t think you can rid yourself of this attraction, in the same way you can’t rid yourself of being gay it’s just who and what your attracted to
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Did anyone tried to get rid of this fetish?

Morbidly A Beast:
I don’t think you can rid yourself of this attraction, in the same way you can’t rid yourself of being gay it’s just who and what your attracted to


I agree. It's not something you can get rid of. You could put it on the back burner or in the back of your mind, but it will still be there. For me personally, I've been attracted to bigger women for years. Going back to at least when I was an early teen.
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Did anyone tried to get rid of this fetish?

Stefan:
So im in relationship with perfect girl for me. I like her personality, humour, looks, ideas, she is really nice and kind to everyone. We are 1 year into relationships and both think this is going to be long term relationship, everything is going smoothly. Also she is normal weight around 130 and trying to loose little bit od weight(which i totally support). So i feel really guilty about having this fetish and fantasising sometimes about feeding her. I think she is gorgeous as she is rn but i cant help but think how would she look little bit bigger(she doesn't know i have this fetish im too ashamed to tell her, but she knows i like thick, curvy girls). So i come to conclusion i want to try to get rid of this fetish i think it will improve our relationship and i think i will feel much better if i dont have thoughts of fattening her up and encouraging her to eat. I always try to support her but this fetish sometimes hinders me. Does anyone have any similar experiences or know anyone that does? Have anyone tried to get rid of this fetish of knows how to?


I think you two need to have an open, honest, respectful adult conversation about each other's preferences, desires, and how to navigate the relationship. You guys could overcome this together so long as you are mindful of her wants, needs, and boundaries.

If you repress it, it will bubble up and explode sometime down the line.
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Did anyone tried to get rid of this fetish?

Stefan:
So im in relationship with perfect girl for me. I like her personality, humour, looks, ideas, she is really nice and kind to everyone. We are 1 year into relationships and both think this is going to be long term relationship, everything is going smoothly. Also she is normal weight around 130 and trying to loose little bit od weight(which i totally support). So i feel really guilty about having this fetish and fantasising sometimes about feeding her. I think she is gorgeous as she is rn but i cant help but think how would she look little bit bigger(she doesn't know i have this fetish im too ashamed to tell her, but she knows i like thick, curvy girls). So i come to conclusion i want to try to get rid of this fetish i think it will improve our relationship and i think i will feel much better if i dont have thoughts of fattening her up and encouraging her to eat. I always try to support her but this fetish sometimes hinders me. Does anyone have any similar experiences or know anyone that does? Have anyone tried to get rid of this fetish of knows how to?

Munchies:
I think you two need to have an open, honest, respectful adult conversation about each other's preferences, desires, and how to navigate the relationship. You guys could overcome this together so long as you are mindful of her wants, needs, and boundaries.

If you repress it, it will bubble up and explode sometime down the line.


Great answer.

Discuss it with her. Yes there's a risk that it could be an issue. But it will be way worse if you don't and your feelings come out in an unexpected way. It might not hurt to talk to a therapist about this issue as well.

It's unlikely you'll get "rid" of this. But you can learn healthy coping strategies and ways to control your feelings in a way that is practical.
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Did anyone tried to get rid of this fetish?

Morbidly A Beast:
I don’t think you can rid yourself of this attraction, in the same way you can’t rid yourself of being gay it’s just who and what your attracted to
yeah you cant get rid of your attraction but i think i could get rid of being attacked to feeding women.
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Did anyone tried to get rid of this fetish?

Stefan:
So im in relationship with perfect girl for me. I like her personality, humour, looks, ideas, she is really nice and kind to everyone. We are 1 year into relationships and both think this is going to be long term relationship, everything is going smoothly. Also she is normal weight around 130 and trying to loose little bit od weight(which i totally support). So i feel really guilty about having this fetish and fantasising sometimes about feeding her. I think she is gorgeous as she is rn but i cant help but think how would she look little bit bigger(she doesn't know i have this fetish im too ashamed to tell her, but she knows i like thick, curvy girls). So i come to conclusion i want to try to get rid of this fetish i think it will improve our relationship and i think i will feel much better if i dont have thoughts of fattening her up and encouraging her to eat. I always try to support her but this fetish sometimes hinders me. Does anyone have any similar experiences or know anyone that does? Have anyone tried to get rid of this fetish of knows how to?

Munchies:
I think you two need to have an open, honest, respectful adult conversation about each other's preferences, desires, and how to navigate the relationship. You guys could overcome this together so long as you are mindful of her wants, needs, and boundaries.

If you repress it, it will bubble up and explode sometime down the line.

Jc101:
Great answer.

Discuss it with her. Yes there's a risk that it could be an issue. But it will be way worse if you don't and your feelings come out in an unexpected way. It might not hurt to talk to a therapist about this issue as well.

It's unlikely you'll get "rid" of this. But you can learn healthy coping strategies and ways to control your feelings in a way that is practical.
i would be happy if i could put this on back burner. Thx for your answer.
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Did anyone tried to get rid of this fetish?

Stefan:
So im in relationship with perfect girl for me. I like her personality, humour, looks, ideas, she is really nice and kind to everyone. We are 1 year into relationships and both think this is going to be long term relationship, everything is going smoothly. Also she is normal weight around 130 and trying to loose little bit od weight(which i totally support). So i feel really guilty about having this fetish and fantasising sometimes about feeding her. I think she is gorgeous as she is rn but i cant help but think how would she look little bit bigger(she doesn't know i have this fetish im too ashamed to tell her, but she knows i like thick, curvy girls). So i come to conclusion i want to try to get rid of this fetish i think it will improve our relationship and i think i will feel much better if i dont have thoughts of fattening her up and encouraging her to eat. I always try to support her but this fetish sometimes hinders me. Does anyone have any similar experiences or know anyone that does? Have anyone tried to get rid of this fetish of knows how to?

Munchies:
I think you two need to have an open, honest, respectful adult conversation about each other's preferences, desires, and how to navigate the relationship. You guys could overcome this together so long as you are mindful of her wants, needs, and boundaries.

If you repress it, it will bubble up and explode sometime down the line.
thanks for your answer
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Did anyone tried to get rid of this fetish?

I think ultimately it comes down to if having kink related sexual/romantic experiences is important to you. I am attracted to being a feedee, and I'm definitely not skinny, but my partner is not involved and isn't into all this. She does know I am. Other side of the coin, I know, but I found that having/being with someone into feedism and having experiences related to this kink with a partner was not something I really needed/craved. I stuff myself alone relatively frequently and enjoy my own gaining, read stories, post/interact on forums, but I don't usually dm with people, or chat past a quick friendly tip or thought - and it's enough for me - I don't feel urges to go cheat (physical, emotional, etc) but I'm also okay not having this kink be apart of my relationship ever. If you want you can engage with this kink in ways that don't need to be done with your partner - but only IF you are okay with feedism not being apart of your relationship EVER and/or engaging in this in ways that don't result in cheating. You'lll have to determine what cheating is to you/your partner as not everyone has the same definition (especially when it comes to talking online/fictional role play/secrecy/emotional cheating). If its any hope, I'm happily engaged in my 5+ year relationship (known eachother for 10+ years).
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