I know my primary desires to gain weight has been to get fat because it's something that I personally find attractive and something that I've wrestled with the idea of doing for over 10 years. I'm even thinking I might commit to doing a New Year's "Resolution" of intentionally gaining weight for all of 2025 and seeing the results at the end of the year. I just came to a realization recently that it might have a secondary benefit by my committing to intentionally gaining.
One of my closest friends is getting married in early 2026. He's always been a bigger dude and he hasn't necessarily been a big fan of that. He lost around 60 pounds and was able to keep it off for a couple of years, but recently has gained it all back. I'm going to be one of his groomsmen and, currently, I am significantly smaller than he is. I was thinking that, by taking the plunge on my, "Resolution" for the New Year and commiting to it, I'd probably end up fat enough to where I'd at least be similar to his size BMI-wise by the wedding, if not larger. In his mind, it might make him look more, " conventionally attractive," to be smaller than most, if not all of his groomsmen. Obviously I don't want to gain weight solely to help out someone else, but it might be a nice added bonus to me intentionally blowing up in the year leading up to his wedding.
Curious if anyone had any thoughts on this?
One of my closest friends is getting married in early 2026. He's always been a bigger dude and he hasn't necessarily been a big fan of that. He lost around 60 pounds and was able to keep it off for a couple of years, but recently has gained it all back. I'm going to be one of his groomsmen and, currently, I am significantly smaller than he is. I was thinking that, by taking the plunge on my, "Resolution" for the New Year and commiting to it, I'd probably end up fat enough to where I'd at least be similar to his size BMI-wise by the wedding, if not larger. In his mind, it might make him look more, " conventionally attractive," to be smaller than most, if not all of his groomsmen. Obviously I don't want to gain weight solely to help out someone else, but it might be a nice added bonus to me intentionally blowing up in the year leading up to his wedding.
Curious if anyone had any thoughts on this?
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