I think you should procede with caution. It would be great if you could accept yourself at your weight. However, if you are not into weight gain, being with someone who wants to feed you could be a problem. If he is a hard core feeder, and can't be happy unless you keep gaining until you are over 500 pounds, there are going to be problems. If he likes your weight now, and likes that you gain weight, but does not put pressure on you to gain, that is good.
If you go from guys who don't like your weight because they think you are too big, to guys who don't like your weight because you are too small, you are not solving any problems. You may need to find a happy medium.
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