Dating/Friendships

Asexualality; dating in the feedism world

In my time on Feabie and other social feedism websites, I've found it kind of difficult to find aren't purely sexual. That's not to say I'm not interested completely, being demi-sexual, but it's so hard to find relationships that are more than just the fetish on the websites. It's a personal issue I know, but I'd like to find a relationship that goes beyond just sharing the fetish. I don't know how many people can relate, but after two years and nothing, it's just enough to get you down.
2 months

Asexualality; dating in the feedism world

Despite being someone who like, draws weight gain art n junk and knows what I like, like yeah I totally feel the same. I'm not interested in a hook up or sexting or whatever, I want a solid long term relationship with another lady who also admires big people.
Also I've been struggling on figuring out where my sexuality lies as I'm not totally ace, just mostly indifferent without an emotional connection.
2 months

Asexualality; dating in the feedism world

Don’t feel too bad. You have to broaden your horizons outside of the Feedist community. Also I would avoid Feabie like the plague they are. Especially when they attack something like Valentine’s Day for an example. I didn’t last an hour with them until they forget that people have birthdays on that day. So I don’t feel bad for leaving that trash dump behind.

Also it’s going to take a long time before I trust anyone on these websites that says the word chat because I sure as hell want nothing to do with them. Or guys that message that claim to be gay. That’s why I went to the the chubs, cubs and bears communities like Bigger City for Real gay men.


I don’t have to hear the words Feabie and Grommr ever again.
2 months

Asexualality; dating in the feedism world

Lovemylard:
I can somewhat relate, except I am not asexual.

But to be fair, regardless of the app, site, location, the type of guy he is, his income, his appearance, his age, his education, his race, his personality style, whether he's a feeder or not, and so on, NO man will ever want a relationship with me. So, whatever.

I am just absolutely loving the free food and fun, being taken to restaurants and nice places I've never been before without having to spend a dime, not even on gas. 😄
Being able to order the most expensive food on the menu, whatever you want, however much you want, without being side-eyed by your date is the main benefit of meeting guys from the feederism community. 😆 Just live it up as if these are your final moments alive!


*sips tea*

My dear, if you are struggling that much, the problem is you.

Like more power to you if you want to do the traditional thing where the guy pays. But don't be out here taking advantage. Not only is that rude and heartless, but it make it harder for him to pay his bills.

Have you see the economy lately? It's hard out there even if you have a good paycheck.
2 months

Asexualality; dating in the feedism world

VincentTurnill:
In my time on Feabie and other social feedism websites, I've found it kind of difficult to find aren't purely sexual. That's not to say I'm not interested completely, being demi-sexual, but it's so hard to find relationships that are more than just the fetish on the websites. It's a personal issue I know, but I'd like to find a relationship that goes beyond just sharing the fetish. I don't know how many people can relate, but after two years and nothing, it's just enough to get you down.


It's possible to find what you want, but you have to keep your expectations on the floor if you go looking in the fetish community. You may have better luck going outside the community and introduce them to it.
2 months