Hey y’all I’ve been on vacation this week with family some of which I haven’t seen in awhile and I’ve been indulging and letting myself have whatever but everyone from my mom to my uncles has just been commenting about how I don’t look how I used to it’s been making me feel down :/ I guess this is more of rant but how did y’all deal with this?

The funniest part about it is a good chunk of them have gained even more weight than I have so I’ve just been at like an aside like 🫠

Last time a family member commented on my weight I just said I don't care anymore and I'm just doing what I want now.

There are of course other factors e.g. I've always been at least overweight.

I get it. My father is fairly fatphobic, but otherwise he’s a really good man. He doesn’t say things often but sometimes things slip out. It always bugs me.

I actually had used this on my uncle and he went completely silent. Kinda sucks tho that people just can’t live and let live I just wanna be fat man 😂