Feedmesqueezeme:It’s very important to maintain communication with all your partners and ensure you all know your needs.
It also means more likely for heart break and you don’t want break ups to affect your other relationships.
However, I find being polyamorous very rewarding. I get to spend time with some
twin flame age gap people. I don’t expect one partner to be able to fulfil all of my needs.
For me, I am after long term romantic relationships and I am excited at the thought that I get to fall in love with multiple people, however I understand that not everyone wants this with multiple people.
I know when I wasn’t honest about it, I felt like I was missing something and I felt so relieved when I could be honest about it with my husband.
Relationships take a lot of work and need good communication from everyone involved. The only difference is, you are with multiple people
I’m polyamorous too, and a lot of what you wrote really resonates. Good communication and honesty make such a difference. At the same time, I’m starting to question it a little lately... Juggling different emotional needs feels heavier than it used to, and I’m not sure if it’s just a rough patch or a sign that I need to rethink how I’m approaching my relationships.
I still love the idea of being able to connect deeply with more than one person, but I’m also noticing how quickly the emotional load can build. Reading your comment was a good reminder that honesty with myself and my partners matters just as much as honesty about being poly in the first place.
