Gaining

What is it about seeing a body growing large and soft?

I have posted before about my lament of having lost so much weight in the past. Funny, I never was an active gainer in the past. I actually used to pad myself to look even bigger not realizing that I was already a very fat man. I would have moments of realization, like when a seat belt would cross my stomach and it felt tight. But again, I never saw myself as big. I would grow out of clothes all the time, but it was never a hot thing to me. It was just a matter of life. But I was still somehow a fan of weight gain, and the like. But I lost weight, a lot of weight. I shrank down, and then realized "hey wait a minute, I used to be so big, what happened?" like I woke up from a long dream. I looked at old photos of myself, much larger and realized dang, I was huge. And it all sort of flooded my brain about how, satisfying it all was. The gaining, the stretch marks, the clothes getting tighter and tighter on my body, moving up past XL to 2XL then 3XL. Not just my body being fat, my fingers were fat, my face was fat. I was fat. I ripped clothes, popped buttons, and I just didn't even think much of it. Until I already lost the weight.
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What is it about seeing a body growing large and soft?

For me? I'm not sure where it originated from. But when I was around 12 or so, before looking at porn I was google searching weight gain. After that, the only women I'd talk to or even ask out were large.

The fascination for me is related to how it moves, how it takes over an entire body. At first, this was just fixation. I just wanted to know what things fat can invade and take over. But soon after, I stopped thinking about it the way it was presented before me (media calling fat unattractive although it was more or less just it being something people avoid), Instead I viewed it as a pure desire.

If someone is large it may be to many circumstances but they are truly free if they can just eat to there means and live with someone who loves them for the quality that shapes there body. They say the mind shapes your reality for you. For some its not a choice which I respect but for others it is and that's a quality I find the most attractive.

As for gaining myself, I've had fantasies as a child but I'm around 150 and I play badminton as a sport because I really enjoy it so I have to say I probably won't indulge in that until I'm old enough to just jump into it.

As for being a feeder, I have 2 instances that most people would disagree with. 1 was a girl in college/university. I'd buy her baguette rolls with tikka filling every single lunch time and talk to her all the time. In the first year she looked 190 but by the end of my last year of my degree she was at least 350. TBH I probably didn't play that big or a role in her gaining
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Although, lets just say I had a sibling who'd beg to differ. I'll tell you more about that if you ask. I saw your question and just had to jump in with an answer. (Also enjoy your holidays.)
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What is it about seeing a body growing large and soft?

Gastonitza:
I think that's it. The sort-of secret pleasure in physically growing in size. There is so little in the world that we can really change or influence, but we have the ultimate power over our own bodies, or over a willing partner who wishes to experience weight gain. The thrill you get from seeing the scale read just one more pound in the positive, is worth all the risks and nagging you get from "normal" life.

Taking control of my body is one of the main reasons why I enjoy being fat. Being disabled, there are a lot of things out of my control, but this is one thing that I can control. I choose to reject society's pressure to be thin at any and all costs. I choose to indulge in the pleasures of whatever food I want and can afford, in whatever quantity it takes to fill my fat belly.

And honestly, the taboo is part of the appeal. I got into this knowing damn well what mainstream society thinks of fat women. Every pound gained is another middle finger to everyone who thinks they can tell me how to live my life. Being fat and happy is an act of rebellion.
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What is it about seeing a body growing large and soft?

You are so right and I agree with you a billion percent if there is nothing else that you can control you shold be able ot control you and yes society's ruling thin is in is a bunch of bullshit when there are more big fat people in the world myself gladly included I wish more people wouldd see it the way you do and not get caught in the trap that being thin is good
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What is it about seeing a body growing large and soft?

Gastonitza:
There is no doubt about it in my mind, there is nothing as thrilling, fulfilling and arousing as witnessing fat being deposited on someone's body, including your own. From subtle changes to unmistakable ballooning. I have been much bigger before, and through various life events, have lost the weight. Coming up to the festive and indulgent season again, I am already gaining weight again, and although everything around us is shouting, stop! The allure of seeing that first little bulge or roll, or the slow but sure tightening of clothing, is intoxicating. We all know about the health implications well enough, but still we deliberately eat to gain body fat. I think I have always been this way, but in later life, with metabolic changes and more sedentary lives, the inevitable fattening happens with relative ease.

What was it for you? That thing that sparked your obsession to get fat or to fatten another? When did you know it, and is it still as exciting now as it was then?


I've always loved fat. It's soft, warm, mesmerizingly jiggly, and makes you sturdier.

I love it rough and I love to cuddle. And food is a love language to me. A big fat guy that likes loves to eat and can keep up with me just makes sense.
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What is it about seeing a body growing large and soft?

There is definitely no better feel or look than a woman with a nice big hanging tummy to touch and rub and kiss they say meat is for man bones are for dogs and the more meat the better I always say
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What is it about seeing a body growing large and soft?

I definitely agree there is no better look thad nice soft huge flesh on a woman her butt legs tummy hips my belief since realzing the difference between boys and girls at age 12 was that SSBBWS was the greatest gift the Lord gave man to view and love thus they should be respected worshipped and admired
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What is it about seeing a body growing large and soft?

Gastonitza:
Firstly, I hope you are well and have had pleasant and restful holiday period. Yes, I get pretty hacked off at the way society insists on conformity with narrow views on what is acceptable in terms of body size and shape. People can be hurtfully judgemental and pious about other people's choices if those choices don't agree with their preconceived ideals. It feels like they believe you to be stupid or flawed if you feel happy being fat, or worse, think you just need help to see your faults and come around to their ideals.
All we see on TV, magazines and Internet sites is the "perfect" people, often young and thin, being all happy and fulfilled. Beauty comes from within, and it can come in all shapes and sizes. Larger people should be included and also shown to be successful and happy. If being fat or getting fatter brings joy into your life, then I say, go for it and don't let the bastards wear you down. I wish you happiness and joy, especially at this special time of year.


I’ve had a lovely Christmas, thank you! Everything tastes so good and I’m so stuffed. The cookies are too tempting though so I keep nibbling. I’ve already gained a fair amount of weight this holiday season, here’s hoping I add a few more pounds! My nice Christmas top is definitely a bit snug around my belly and hips this year.

I hope you’ve had a wonderful holiday too!
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What is it about seeing a body growing large and soft?

Merry Christmas, all! I love fat bodies, especially big pot bellies, though I don't need for a partner to be fat to be attracted. My partner is actually long, lean, and in shape, and I'm crazy about him. However, I am incredibly turned on by my own obesity and the feeling of my wildly bloated, obese body against his lean frame. I love the reality of being very fat and all that entails, the sensation of stuffing to such extremes my belly, back, and sides strain, and the reward of seeing my rolls get thicker, my gut bulge past my knees, and hearing my fat thighs slap together. Unless health or other life changes necessitate it, I can't really imagine ever wanting to lose so much as a pound, especially now that I've reached a quarter ton!
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What is it about seeing a body growing large and soft?

Gastonitza:
There is no doubt about it in my mind, there is nothing as thrilling, fulfilling and arousing as witnessing fat being deposited on someone's body, including your own. From subtle changes to unmistakable ballooning. I have been much bigger before, and through various life events, have lost the weight. Coming up to the festive and indulgent season again, I am already gaining weight again, and although everything around us is shouting, stop! The allure of seeing that first little bulge or roll, or the slow but sure tightening of clothing, is intoxicating. We all know about the health implications well enough, but still we deliberately eat to gain body fat. I think I have always been this way, but in later life, with metabolic changes and more sedentary lives, the inevitable fattening happens with relative ease.

What was it for you? That thing that sparked your obsession to get fat or to fatten another? When did you know it, and is it still as exciting now as it was then?

Munchies:
I've always loved fat. It's soft, warm, mesmerizingly jiggly, and makes you sturdier.

I love it rough and I love to cuddle. And food is a love language to me. A big fat guy that likes loves to eat and can keep up with me just makes sense.

Gastonitza:
Wobbling, jiggling, shimmering... The swish and sway of fat when a large person moves, is hard not to stare it. I have been busted many times, letting my gaze linger just a little bit too long, when looking on in awe at a beautifully big person walks past or sits nearby in a restaurant. I love the way fat forms rolls and can't be concealed by clothing. It just seems so crazy to feel so attracted to fat and fatness, but it must be something to do with bounty, being plentiful, abundant. Being thick and substantial. There is nothing attractive about a stick insect!


I wouldn't say being thin is unattractive. While I prefer big guys, I've seen many thin ones that I wouldn't mind tapping. Plus, I've been thin before (I'm athletically thick now), and I've always been able to get it.

I've never had an issue with staring. If I saw a cute fat, I'd chat him up. Of course, that comes with it's own issues. A lot of fat guys have low self-esteem. So they get confused when an attractive woman comes onto them. It's kinda heartbreaking, honestly.
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