Not to sound like a prick. But, you only live once. I'm more of a "there's no harm in trying" kind of guy. I'd rather try and get it over with and off my chest. That way her and I can either fancy each other or I can move onto someone else. Its a big world out there with many people in it. Also, from personal experiance if I don't try it bothers me for a few days. I'll ask myself a whole lot of "what if" questions. That can drive anyone crazy. I guess it all depends on the person. So I'd rather risk rejection than go through that. I don't take it personal if someone isn't interested in me either. They're just not feeling it. Also, I'm noted for when I'm out with the guys. If one of my friends is checking a girl out and doesn't talk to her. I simply say "I'd rather die than live down on my knees" that saying applies to many aspects of life.
14 years