FriesWithThatShake wrote
But the main reason I bring up this thread is because of women that DON'T ask guys out in the hopes that the guy they're interested asks THEM out. A couple years ago, I had 3 girls reconnect to me via facebook, and say how they used to like me and had hoped I'd ask them out. Back then, however, I was much more shy than I am now. (I've talked about how much so in the past here). It was good to hear, but I had no idea that I had been liked.
But the main reason I bring up this thread is because of women that DON'T ask guys out in the hopes that the guy they're interested asks THEM out. A couple years ago, I had 3 girls reconnect to me via facebook, and say how they used to like me and had hoped I'd ask them out. Back then, however, I was much more shy than I am now. (I've talked about how much so in the past here). It was good to hear, but I had no idea that I had been liked.
This is very interesting, I know on occasions talking with my dad, he said he once caught up with a girl, many years later, who, when they were in school together, she was the hottest most popular girl in the school, yet she actually confessed, all those years later to how smitten she was with my dad and how cute she thought he was. He was naturally dumb founded as he was like me growing up (quiet and shy) and never in a million years would have thought the girl everyone else wanted, actually wanted him.
Having said that, I haven't had the same success, i've only ever honestly liked 3 girls in my entire life and none of those worked out, (2 were flat out rejection, the other one was due to other matters)
So as inspiring as my dads advice was, i don't find myself with beauty queens confessing their undying love for me... lol.
FriesWithThatShake wrote
I never understood why some guys and girls would ask people they didn't know out for a date.
I never understood why some guys and girls would ask people they didn't know out for a date.
lol I don't get this either, like when you see a pretty girl out somewhere and you know you'll never see them again, you think most guys would just ask them out, but how do you ask out someone who you know nothing about? :S
As for the hints thing, lol don't bother girls, I wouldn't know if a girl wanted me if she stripped and sat on my lap, i'm that oblivious to those kind of things...
14 years