katsujinken wrote
Well that's easy to say when that woman isn't the only person you've ever met who doesn't give you blanks stares when you talk about all the things you love ..oh ya and when she isn't the most beautiful woman in the world.
I had both & lost them. It really sucks to care about someone so much that you'd be willing to overcome any obsticle for them but even then, they end up not waiting for you on the other side despite what what they told you.
It's worse than that in my situation because she's destroying herself with her alternative. And what alterative do I get in return? To be with someone just because they're convenient & be haunted by their pale comparison.
Ya, the losses are cut pretty clearly.
johnxyz wrote
I've had women do this to me in the past. There was a fire at their job, they had a family emergency, etc. The key is to cut your losses and not to meet the person. If it doesn't seem right, it probably isn't.
I've had women do this to me in the past. There was a fire at their job, they had a family emergency, etc. The key is to cut your losses and not to meet the person. If it doesn't seem right, it probably isn't.
Well that's easy to say when that woman isn't the only person you've ever met who doesn't give you blanks stares when you talk about all the things you love ..oh ya and when she isn't the most beautiful woman in the world.
I had both & lost them. It really sucks to care about someone so much that you'd be willing to overcome any obsticle for them but even then, they end up not waiting for you on the other side despite what what they told you.
It's worse than that in my situation because she's destroying herself with her alternative. And what alterative do I get in return? To be with someone just because they're convenient & be haunted by their pale comparison.
Ya, the losses are cut pretty clearly.
Many many years ago I had a blind date with probably the most beautiful woman I had ever seen. She was the only person I had ever seen who had all of the physical attributes that I like in a woman.
I drove into Washington DC, paid to park, and was screened by the front desk and waited for her to come downstairs to meet me. When she finally came down, she told me that a friend of hers had just called, and that she had not seen him in a while, and she would rather be with him than me. She then told me "maybe some other time." I told her not a chance in hell and walked out angry.
I would rather be with someone who is less attractive, less friendly, or even be with no one at all then to be with someone who jerks me around.
14 years
