I think it's important to talk about the problems--which I suspect are partly going to be true of any fetish site, but are amped up here by the negative images being fed to us *constantly* by fat-hating friend, family, and the media. It just makes it that much harder to hold your head high and do what's right.
But--and this is a VERY BIG *BUT*--we so often lose sight of the successes that happen all the time here. Romances, marriages, important friendships, small local communities, and all kinds of things happen while we're complaining about how bad things are.
I'm glad Atomic is asking us to count our blessings. And there's a lot to count.