Extreme obesity

SuperFelix wrote:

I dont know how she gained all the weight again... But she didnt lose weight by dieting. She simply ate more healthy and above all, she ate less, and exercised more during the her time at the weight loss school. It was a complete change of lifestyle that made her lose weight. If she would have continued to eat "right" and exercise she wouldnt have gained weight again....

Dieting is bad and often results in weightgain in the end.
Losing weight through a lifestyle change, more exercise and eating healthy, is good.

em2410 wrote:
Question i live in Charlotte Nc and there is like no sign of SSBBW life really anywhere. Sometimes i do come across a ssbbw but she is like double my age and it makes it awkward.

Im gettin off topic. what im asking is that is it hard to find big girls your age (like very big girls) for you guys out there. ANd for you SSBBW is it hard to find guys your age.:o

bignbeautiful wrote:
I'm not at the 400lbs range but I am up to around 350 and it's so hard to find someone who will go out with me without being ashamed or embarrassed of his preference

ReadTheWind wrote:
There are no large people at my school. I go to a university that holds records for the largest amount of eating disorders and addictions to working out. It's so sad.

FyreBurner wrote:
The other day on a night out I saw a girl in my age in about that weight range (I guess 350ish, but she certainly wasn't thin) and we had a little chat. I first "discovered" her on the way to the loo when she wasn't exactly smiling so I did a clown's "Smile!" face and she did so On my way back she had stopped smiling again and I made the same thing and she restarted Her friend looked at me like I was some evil person but we ended up chatting nevertheless. She was brutally honest and told me that it usually never happens that someone approaches her in a club or anywhere for that matter and she wondered (with quite some resignation) why I did it. I told her that I preferred women of her size and she asked me why I would do that..It was a bit unfortunate, it turned out she really just was too self-critical..I told her she shouldn't be because she was a pretty girl (and not only because of her body but she had the most stunning face, especially for a girl her size) but our little chat had somewhat reached its end. I tried to squeeze some self-esteem out of her but failed. I ended up telling her again that she should treat herself with more respect. It was the first time I was in that kind of situation so I might not have made the best decisions in what I told her. I just hope I haven't made it worse The world needs self-confidence that doesn't depend on size!

blank009 wrote:
She is Georgia Davis britains fattest teenager. She weighed 35 stone at 15, went to an american weight loss camp and slimmed down to 15 stone. Since she returned to Britain her weight has gone back up to 40 stone aged 17.It was all over the papers here.

chickidee87 wrote:
im 26 and at 524lbs and JUST becoming comfortable with my body. Who knew, there was a whole bunch of guys out there who actually liked big girls! It's amazing!

It's hard finding guys who are actually around me and that I hit it off well with. Then of course there are the older gentlemen who are amazingly sweet, but I'm not attracted to men too far outside of my age range (about a ten year difference is my max)