General

I concur with C'H'; if we don't move on we lose out to the lock. Let's try to avoid that and not compare struggles as personal opinions distort what is otherwise a very straight foreward compare and contrast of injustices, stuggles, etcetera etecetera. Eitherway, its messy and when that gets too hot we've been warned what will happen.
My area is a berg for BBW's but I do know one that I'm close friends with. Since a ban on names has been put forth, I'll just leave it at her as "Red". Anywho, I've known her since the 5th grade and she was moderatley hot in high school-just that supple hint of a voluptuous pear ready to rippen into a very sweet emerald eyed fruit; after dropping out she started on a dating spree of party guys who accompanied by her new found habits began to fill out her figure nicely. After the 3rd or the 4th knocked her up that really got her to a gorgeous spike-right around the 190 mark, and since then she's still hovered at 160 to 170 and as of late nearing the 180 mark.
God I'd pay a pretty penny for her to not just think of me as that guy you hang out with and vent to; I'd wager my minimum wage bi-weekly bribe that amongst all the things she'll tell me "I love you" is either under "highly unlikely" or "when hell has frozen over and thawed again" categories.

The only reason the thread got locked was because people were beating up on Dazed. As long as you don't single out anybody in the future, you can debate the original topic of this thread to your heart's content, and it probably won't get locked again. People probably aren't going to see your post several pages in, so the simplest way to get people to change the subject in the middle of a discussion is just to make a new thread.

Topics are certainly not kept strictly on rails, as one will notice around the General forum itself (fantasyfeeder.com/cms/forum/viewthread.php <- there's a good example. ), but roughly two whole pages discussing the conduct of another member of the site instead of the main topic isn't really appropriate, whether they are good posts, or not good posts. And yes, I am aware that Dazed himself continued talking about it too, as I noted, he is not to continue it either. But that is that, so carry on all.

If the only real test that you have to pass is friends or family then I'm screwed. The only girl a hint on the larger side my mom and grandparents met post test date met with something along the lines of moderate to rolling disapproval. Considering my philia has absolutely no obviously feasable root, I'm chocking that one up to irony. Any one else ever find them in a similar boat at one point or another?

I used to consider myself a closet FA, until like 6or7 years ago my friends pointed out that they knew what type of girl I liked and who I'd want to flirt with out of a group, and had already been like assuming it for a year or two...

so yeah that made things a lot easier and less embarrassing and less confrontational for me! Since then I haven't really had any problems being shy about it or anything...

but yeah... for some reason before that I was afraid everyone would think I was some sorta weirdo I guess? and I was already kind of shy in general. Back then that is.