Zaftig Incarnadine wrote:
I found love here too. I was in the US for work last Summer, and since I was a long way from home within a day or two I was a little more 'visible' around here, so to speak.
Fre (freffingtonpost) pops up with a really normal email, we chat online a little and he has a lovely, kind face. I'm open with him and feel confident, free, explorative. As he said, when I got all shy after spilling fetish/fantasy beans with this stranger, "don't worry, you meet people backwards on here."
A few days later we met in NYC for coffee, and after that I was totally hooked, like a new and powerful pleasure just in his company. I just wanted to be his friend really, though with a growing and overwhelming desire, especially as we realised the rare joy of so closely sharing our fetish stuff.
We hung out every weekend, chatted all the time, and by the time we knew it was there the same for both of us, we had completely fallen for each other.
I hear you about soul mates, some of the fairytale ideas are by definition unreal, aren't they [I'm thinking of the royal wedding]. Fre and I are both quite skint, he's in NYC, I'm in London; it's not ideal by any means.
But where there's a will there's a way, and as soon as I finish up my degree here I can get a way of being over there half the time, and when he finishes his stuff he can come here for a bit too. Or we could just move to a completely new place. We'll work it out somehow. We both feel lucky, excited about being together more in the near future, and most of all -- happy!
I wish you all the luck in the world, it's not everyday that you meet someone who you're so compatible with. I only hope to be as lucky one day.