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I'm wondering how many of you have let other people in your life know that you either like the idea of a chubby or fat significant other?

Or in the case of feedees, do they know you're you're trying to gain?


In my case I don't think people have any idea. I think I can't tell them even if I cared to do so. If you knew me in real life, it'd run counter to who and what I am. Thus, it would seem very, very odd if I "came out" with it. I could be happy with a thin woman, but if she were chubby it'd definitely be a plus.

most of my close friends know i like big girls. only one of my friends knows that i like to see them get bigger, and that im trying to get fat myself.

It's pretty common knowledge that I like bigger girls, as it's hard to hide (and I have no desire to hide or have ever attempted to hide) the fact that you are checking out and dating bigger girls.

As for my feeder/feedee tenancies, this is a secret.

I'm not a gainer, but there is the part about me liking bigger women. I don't have a specific preference when it comes to body types, as any type can turn me on depending on how she is built. Anyway, my parents once were curious as I had a BBW model on my Myspace friends list and my mom was all asking me stuff about it and tried to change the subject. I just tell them that body type doesn't matter to me, even though there is the over-the-top/overboard part of it that I get sort of turned off by, but that's beside the point.

Although once I did receive flack from a friend about me dating a bigger girl at the time. Another guy was all telling him that body types don't really matter to me.