If you have a connection with someone, it is easy to find out what they are into without making a big deal about it.
For example, go out for ice cream. Make some joke. Something along the lines, of "I dated one woman who liked ice cream so much, she gained 30 pounds in a year." The wait to see what your date says. "I think that is gross," or "I've gained 30 pounds in a year, and I don't mind."
You don't need to spill your guts out. But as someone pointed out, happening to find someone who jsut happens to be a feedee is very rare.
For example, go out for ice cream. Make some joke. Something along the lines, of "I dated one woman who liked ice cream so much, she gained 30 pounds in a year." The wait to see what your date says. "I think that is gross," or "I've gained 30 pounds in a year, and I don't mind."
You don't need to spill your guts out. But as someone pointed out, happening to find someone who jsut happens to be a feedee is very rare.
13 years