General

Thin is in.

If she is just entering puberty, chances are she is growing into her body and in a few years time she'll be more average then fat.

I'd tell her things like that, as its not right to influence her either way into wanting to be thinner or fatter. The best thing she can do is not worry about it and let nature take care of herself, any dieting or stuff at such an age could do more harm then good.
13 years