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I need some help.

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Kitty wrote:
I'm just trying to really grasp this. I feel like he has a secret agenda of making me fat though he says he never would.

Only your boyfriend knows if he has a secret agenda.

But I'd give him the benefit of the doubt. It's quite possible to fantasize about this stuff without ever doing it.

And even though we like this stuff, most of us oppose pressuring, manipulating, or tricking someone into gaining against their will.

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I need some help.

Joined 15 years

Kitty wrote:
I'm sure he'd never secretly try to get me fat

Then what secret agenda are you worried about?

13 years

I need some help.

Joined 15 years

Kitty wrote:

AskDrFeeder wrote:
Then what secret agenda are you worried about?

Well, I guess none. I'm starting to think that I got the wrong impression of this fetish . . . and then let my mind take it to the extreme.

Thanks for asking about it! I think a lot of people would just have stewed in their own suspicions.

I think our work here is done.

13 years

I need some help.

Joined 15 years

Awesome thread people, this is the way we should be advertising ourselves to the world.

13 years