Gaining

Loss and re-gains

I have noticed similar changes in weight or fat distribution with my wife. When she first gained a lot of weight it seemed that her but and thighs started receiving all the weight first (which I loved) and then her lower belly really fattened up (which I loved) and stuck out quite far it almost looked as if she was pregnant again.

After she lost the majority of all her weight she has several times gained some of it back and her belly has never stuck out that far again but the fat has distributed wider on her belly and hips (which have become much softer and fatter) and she has developed a bit more fat on her upper belly. In fact I was comparing some pics the other day and I noticed from a "front or back angle" how much wider she looks now than even when she was quite a bit heavier before. From the side angle she can hide a lot of her size. Her thighs and butt still get nice and big but they seem stronger with less cellulite which I am fine with. I think with an extra 10+ lbs. her butt and thighs will start to see more cellulite when she gains.

I really want her to gain and get much fatter and appreciate every gorgeous pound she develops on her figure. It's kind of funny some days she seems way skinny to me and then other days I will look at her and think wow, she is getting pretty fat all of a sudden! She is not into gaining at all but most of the time she doesn't have the will power to control her eating this coupled with less workouts equals her gaining. She has been on a slow gaining streak for the past couple of years....she has probably put on 20 Lbs. over the past 2 years which is great but I always hope for more.
13 years