This seems to happen quite often. I think people wax and wane with how interested they are in the whole scene - they have a flurry of activity and then maybe feel guilty or uncomfortable, or bored of it, and quit. I almost feel reluctant to reply to messages from people if their "joined" date is today or only a few days ago because more often than not they disappear and it's a waste of my time. Oh and there's one person I met on here a while back who was so cool that even though he'd only just joined I kept sending him messages saying "still here?", "don't leave" etc. Haha maybe that was overkill.
13 years