Seabear wrote:
Again, sorry to come off with such an edge, but I'm sure others have been or are in the situation i'm in now.
Again, sorry to come off with such an edge, but I'm sure others have been or are in the situation i'm in now.
Indeed, it's a common complaint on here. I even added a note to the "Getting Started/Guide to FF" sticky before to help address it:
- On messaging/contacting someone, people can often prefer it when you put a bit more thought into the message that you write rather than simply asking "what brings you to FF?". Reading their dating ad first to find out such things instead of asking this question for example, is an excellent idea and can show to them that you have a proper interest in them.
If I were you, I'd also add that you're only interested in women in the "About Me" part of your profile- it'll help cut their messages down since they have no choice but to view your main profile to message you in the first place, hahaha.
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