octavedoctor wrote:johnxyz wrote:
I would find someone who is into it, if he is not.
she hasn't said whether it's a deal-breaker for her. what if she loves him? i'm all for sexual satisfaction but dropping someone you have strong feelings for because of a fetish probably isn't a good idea.
to be honest, i'm a guy and i can think of no reason he wouldn't be willing to at least 'play along' with your fetish whether he truly likes it or not. i mean, what's the downside? unless you're hardcore into it and it's all you ever want to do, i don't think he'll be bothered about it enough not to do it. just let him know you like it and want him to try.
Obviously, she will have to make a choice, after weighing the options. But there are so many people here who think that making someone else a feeder or a feedee is easy. Sometimes it is easy to forget that most people are not into it, and most of them think it is insane.