Cookie22 made a really good point as to the size of the inbox. If I was a girl receiving 50+ messages a week and trying to keep up with people that I already have conversations with and then replied to even more my brain would get scrambled trying to remember who was who.
One thing that must be remembered about FF, is that it isn't a dating site, but that dating is a part of it. Also, some people use the dating part to desribe more about themselves without really having much intention of replying to messages that often, or at all.
When I do write a message I tend to write more than one line and give thought to what I plan to write. If I was messaging several people, I really wouldn't have the time to keep up with loads of extra messages, which must be the case with the women on here more than the men, as I know they get overloaded.
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