Most foodees don't want to be encouraged to gain. On the other hand, since a lot of them gain anyway, they might like a partner who appreciates gaining. So a feeder might be a good choice.
Most feeders would prefer a partner they can encourage to gain, but a lot of them would probably be content to have a larger partner who may or may not gain but has at least given up dieting. So a foodee might be a good choice.
Are you now or have you ever been in such a relationship? How is/was it?
13 years
