princess piggy wrote:AussieFA63 wrote:
I'd be fully prepared to care for my partner in everyway, if she became immobile.
If you love someone & make that committment, you should stand by them no matter what. Like I've said before, if your partner had an accident & became dependent on you, would you leave them? If they had a stroke, had cancer? Only difference here is that your partner has gained so much weight they need you to help them.
I LOVE this point!! it is soo true!
SHOULD stay with them, and actually staying with them is two different things.
People can gain only so much weight. and some feeders have to keep feeding. I know one woman who gained to over 600. When she could not gain any more, her boyfriend left her. She then had WLS and remained sick from it until she died from it. A very tragic story indeed. I hope this never happens to anyone else. But it could.