fatalicat wrote:okay being new to this whole lifestyle plus being out of the dating scene for the past 14yrs I am really enjoying the attention I am getting from really fit attractive guys. Before if these types of men would have approached me on the street or out clubbing etc I would have thought ok your mates put you up to this or how drunk are you lol. Even now when I see photos of the guys getting in contact with me it boggles my mind but in a good way. These types of guys have not only increased my self confidence but shown me that us beautiful fat girls can have any man we want be they skinny, built or not. Okay that was a long winded answer but for me if I see a fat chick like myself with a slim or well built guy I would think you go girl! Every one deserves to fall in love and its not up to society to tell us who that should be.
This is such a great post!
I think that there have always been a lot of Men out there that have always liked heavier women but more and more they are starting to show it. I think it has a lot to do with age and maturity.
Speaking for myself I have always dated and gone out with girls and then women who were heavier by societies standards. As I have become older I find myself being attracted to women who are much heavier even over 300 Lbs. Obviously it is more than just the shear weight. My wife is near her heaviest other than just after her pregnancies probably 40-50 Lbs. heavier then when I met her.....and when we first met she was curvy and a bit thick by societies standards. I currently view her as fairly skinny compared to some women I see that I find very attractive who probably weigh well over 100 Lbs. more. But when I compare her to some of her thinner friends she look's much Fatter to me......because she is fatter than them. I would actually love her being 50, 70 or even 100 Lbs. heavier.
So, if I was not married and on the open market, I would probably be attracted to and go for women much heavier than my wife currently. With that being said when I first started dating my wife I actually was wanting her to be around 170 Lbs on her 5' 3" frame which she is slightly over now.....which then I would have considered Fat (And liked very much). So....not only has the weight and size I desire in women gone up as I have become older.....but so has the way I would approach them and show them how I liked their more feminine larger figures. So I guess this is a good thing for all of you Beautiful heavier women.....as Men get older they will show you what they really like.....and I am thinking that there a are a lot more men that like heavier women as opposed to skinny women...... and the good thing is the will start to show it as they mature and get older.
From your post it was refreshing to hear that you can seriously tell that these men desire you for you and your beautiful body......and part of that because it is bigger and sexier. So to all you larger beautiful women show off all those luscious curves and even rolls.....because we love them and want to softly touch, caress and hold them.
