chocolatelover2 wrote:
That sounds so romantic to me. Taking care of someone immobile, to love her 24/7, to be there for her, loyal to her at any time, to bath her, to feed her, to dress her,... Sorry guys but that sounds like a 'Hollywood' romance to me. Completely unrealistic.
Let's face it! Taking care of someone 'temporary' is a difficult task to do, not to mention someone being immobile for the rest of her life. Ask yourself, can you seriously be in charge of literally everything? The cooking, the cleaning, the washing, provide food, to pay all the bills yourself,to love her unconditionally ... day in and day out and that for the rest of your life? Or till she dies. (by that i mean a natural death).
Do a little test for yourself, try to take care of your grandma for a whole week (including the weekend, that means no going out with friends and no take breaks) and see for yourself if you can do it for the rest of your life. I can guess the result of that test already...
On the other hand, im not all knowing, so if that guy really exist, he must belong to the 'super humain race', flawless and perfect!
I'm not looking, but i will make an exception for that one!
I've thought about it many times and I'm quite sure I will love having to care for a woman that are immobile
It is a desire I've had for many years having to care a woman who is fat that she can do nothing but lie in bed and eat and get bigger and bigger.
To help her with everything and give her all my love and care.
Washing her and care for her skin so she will not be frank in her models of fat.
Caress her lovely body and great models and show her I appreciate her good work.
Yes I am quite sure I would be there for her 24 / 7 and do everything for her ..