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It's nice that you're the exception to the rule with all those FAs who will gladly ditch their current partner for someone fatter. Lord knows that we can't control our urges and sexual desires, and won't be satisfied until we've attained the golden throne of sexing the fattest women in the world. I commend you on rising above this primal instinct.

I do it mostly to bait people into riding their high horses into threads so that I can mock them behind their backs.

Watch out, or you'll become a bigger cynic than me. Personally my dick says I love fat girls, but what they do with their body is up to them. Reality says anyone who will allow me is fair game LOL. I do have standards, but at my age you really can't be too picky. Would I make a better boyfriend because I'm an FA, doubt it, but I might make a better lover.

I fall into both categories,sadly in my opinion not a good FA,so am avoiding getting involved too deeply any more

I think FAs certainly have a much higher chance of being a good/better boyfriend.


It has to have something to do with the fact that not everyone one of our current or past girlfriends are "fat" or fill that "fetish" role.

We are still sexually attracted to them even though they aren't our usual or desired "size". Over time this probably teaches us to look deeper than the sexual impression made on us by our significant others. Instead we fall in love or become infatuated with their personalities, quirks and intelligence.

This process no doubt leads to seeing inherent value in a woman, and when we get that "fat" girl it makes it all that easier to value her as a very sexy albeit very fat wholesome woman.



That explanation might seem like a snap, but I post sparingly so I need to make an impression.

I suppose if the big girl has so many issues with her weight that she cannot bear being touched then yes a non FA would be better. However, if it is more of just a dislike, then the FA could easily make her feel great with touches of affection in public as well as at home. To show any girl that you are proud to be with her is a very strong positive and can make that girl feel like a beauty queen, no matter what her size.

Allthough it sounds all noble and that, I somewhat disagree. Physical attraction plays a major role in a relationship. Personally I am attracted to big girls and I could not imagine having a relationship with a skinny girl. It just would not work.

If two men are EXACTLY the same, same looks, same personality, same everything
except one is a fat admirer
then yes that one is going to be a better boyfriend for a fat girl, simply because when she gets naked he is going to be turned on and the other isnt.

You can aruge it as much as you like but the fact is if a guy prefers slim women he wont be turned on by a 300 lb womans body, sure he might be turned on by her breasts or the things she doing or saying but not her actual body. He might be in love with her for her personality but hes not going to look at her belly and think GOD DAMN and get a hard on like a fat admirer will.

I personally would hate to be in a relationship with someone that ONLY loves me for me and deep down would prefer it if I lost some weight.

Its basically the same as asking, if two women are exactly the same except one is fat and you are a fat admirer
which ones going to make the better girlfriend ?
obviously if you prefer fatties the fat one is better because shell turn you on.

There are plenty of awful FA b/f's and you don't have to worry about non-FA's being in the closet haha