Gaining

So I am about 5'10" and around 196lb. I have always been really thin, but I have put on slot of muscle mass. I was about 140 and I just started pigging out and working out. I gained 15 pounds of muscle and 47 pounds of fat. I used to have abs, but I personally didn't want them. Thats why I pigged out haha. But my girlfriend (who I love very much) told me that she missed my abs, so I ate cleaner and dropped about 20 pounds of fat. But I told her that I wanted her to gain weight if I'm gonna lose weight. She's 80 pounds and 5 feet tall. She knows I like bbw's and ssbbw's but she doesn't like big guys. I really miss my belly and I would love to gain it all back and more, but I don't want her to be unhappy or stop gaining. I'll love her either way, but she was actually underweight and I'd really like her to be a bit overweight. What can I do to help her to see things the way I do. I know she would still love me no matter how big I get, but I want her to actually like me big and for her to want herself to be big. What could I do to make this happen? All input is very much appreciated.

Hmm. Brain transplant?

If you already weigh 265, it looks like you found the way to gain. Just keep it up. Some people are in a hurry to gain, but the faster you gain, the sooner you will either have to stop or approach immobility.

See my site, especially "How to Get Fat".

Never stop eating lots of yummy food!