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I'll assume you're not looking for a gender-specific viewpoint and chime in.

I'm in decent shape and like to think I have a healthy relationship with food. Some would probably say I'm a bit too strict with what I eat, but whilst I like to control what goes in my mouth I've never had any clinical/psychological issues with food. My strictness isn't driven by a desire for control, but because I have a relatively slow metabolism and frankly just can't get away with eating crap.

I've never remotely considered that this strictness with food is related to being a feeder. For me that's just a sexual quirk/fetish that otherwise doesn't inform my life or vice versa.

The two things do clash, though. What may have personally started out for me as a vanity thing has matured into a matter of health. I believe that humans are incredibly versatile and athletic physical animals, capable of moving in an extraordinarily diverse and beautiful manner. Just look at gymnasts, parkour etc. This is what I want for myself, and yet what turns me on is women gaining weight. It's a frustrating dichotomy that I have yet to resolve.

Weight gain is a fetish that is typically exclusive to a persons gender-oriented sexuality.

Having an exclusive fetish for girls getting fat and then gaining weight oneself would be like growing a vagina or boobs (both figuratively and literally).

I'm a male gainer/foodee/feedee, and in my time here I've only encountered one female feeder who I actually knew for a fact was anorexic. I didn't get along too well with her because her fascination was partly borne of disgust. But anyway, I've also encountered dozens of other female feeders who appeared, at least outwardly, to have totally healthy relationships with food.

My two cents.

i'm a female feeder and fa of a normal weight but i have absolutely no food issues whatsoever, i love food! actually, i eat a lot and have a huge sweet tooth, i just don't tend to gain a lot of weight cause i keep pretty busy. but yea girl, you're not alone in being a normal sized but non-anorexic female feeder!

I know this question is directed to feeders but I think that my experience as a feedee may also be relevant

I think some people just have an obsession with weight, and from this an eating disorder or a sexual fetish can develop.

I've been both ways, but I don't believe that my fat fetish was born from my eating disorder. Rather, I believe that they both originate from an obsession with weight which I've had since I was a child (which was originally fat positive). They are two different reflections of my fat fascination which were determined through life experiences and social environment. I sometimes think that my eating disorder was not only a deprivation of food but also of sexuality.

In a way I'm not surprised by the number of people I see on here who have/had an eating disorder, but ofcourse the majority of people on here have and always have had a healthy relationship with food and so only have the fat obsession through the fetish, which is definitely the best way to be

I'm a feeder, I'm fine with food though I have bad problems with acid reflux so to a degree I have to be careful with what I eat and how much/etc. I do love food though, not anorexic at all. Chocolate is forever a favourite of mine.

Well, im a size 8 uk dress size, and weight about 112 pounds, but i am very much so into feeding, love watching/the thought of my man getting bigger, hell, id stuff him all day long if i could, then have alot of fun in the bedroom afterwoods. But i deffinatly do not!! have issues with food, i love food, i love treating myself and partner to meals out, and i can sometimes out do him, though i dont like to do that too often, becasue i want him bigger than me. but nope, no issues, i just have a good metabolism and so i dont gein weight apart from when i was pregnant with my daughter.
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its nice to knwo there are female feeders out there who are similar to myself!.. its mainly comercialised as a male thing, and women are the BBWs not very often there are BHM with skinny feeder gf's
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I definetly disagree with this, healthy food is soooo much more expensive than unhealthy food, that is why low income areas are more likely to have a high percent of overweight citizens than higher income areas.

I remember one time working in the city and only having $5 to buy lunch with and looking everywhere for something healthy but all the salads, sushi, rolls etc. were atleast $7-10 so I had to settle for a whopper burger for $4.95 because it was literally the only thing that would fill me up and I could afford.

also the other day I bought a big whole watermleon and it cost me 20$ !!!!! I could have bought 10 x 2$ bags of chips for that ! and at Mcdonalds the other day I noticed salads are like 9$ yet a burger is $5

and not even starting on all the 1$ deals at mcdonalds, I mean you get get a cheeseburger and small fries for $2, what else could you get for that price that would fill you up that much ?


bit of a rant but juat really annoys me when they go on and on about the obesity crisis and how were all such drains on the health care system yet a watermelon costs $20 pppfttt what a joke

next time imma use that $20 for a pack of smokes and the left over on some coke yeahh suck that NHS

For the OP, that is so not true. I'm a bit of picky eater, but that's mostly a consistency thing. I'll sit down at Christmas or Thanksgiving dinner and eat up. And I eat plenty of food, most of it healthy or health-full foods because I like to keep my muscles fed for my workouts. But I eat...like 3 horses sometimes. I love feeding my woman and think it's only fair that I have a big appetite and enjoy some of the food she's being fed as well.