Gaining

Ya know it's funny and I wouldn't believe how someone could be totally oblivious to gaining that much. especially with clothes fitting tighter and everything else.

But the same thing happened to me way back when I was always athletic and skinny. I graduated from college and started a desk job along with not playing sports all the time and moved in with my college sweat heart who was in her last 2 years of college.

I stepped on a scale one day at a department store and it read 180 Lbs.up from my typical thin 160 Lbs. wit being quite tall. I though it must have been wrong so I didnt pay much attention. I weighed myself four months later or so on my girlfrieds scale one day and it read 202 lbs. Was it true, had I gained this much weight? I asked my girlfriend if her scale was right and she said yes but she never likes to weigh herself "being that she is quite the little plumper". She said she took it from her roomate when she moved out and her roomate always had an accurate scale because she was always on weight watchers. I asked my girlfrien if I looked bigger to her and she said a little bit but she though I looked healthy. Six plus more months went by and I noticed my girlfriend was really getting fat with all the great meals she cooked us followed with baked goods and deserts. I was actually in awe at how much she would eat and how fat she had become. One day I came home ....Cont'd in a bit

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from work and my girlfriend was sitting on the couch and I could tell she had been crying. Next to her lay a empty bag of chips I asked her what was the matter and she said she just got back from her Doctors appt. and got lectured about how much weight she has ained since her last years check up. I consoled her and told her I thought she looked better than ever to me, she was happy to hear that.

She felt better and then she asked me which I will never forget, "can we go on a diet together", I said "we" and she then said don't tell me you have not noticed how fat you have become also. I was in shock for a moment and I said I thought you thought I looked healthy? She said that was about 40+ Lbs ago and placed her hand on my belly and said what about this as she gently patted it and it jiggled and shook for a while. I must of had a confused look on my face because she then said you really have not noticed how fat you have become. She then said that her Mom who was just down and we had not seen her for over a year, who happens to like men including her husband who have rather large bellies....mentioned that I was starting to look really good with my extra belly I had put on. She also said all of her college girlfriends that have known us for a while kept asking her what she had been feeding us because we look like the happy fat married couple now.

Now all of this was a shock to me....how did I not pay attention or really acknowledge until this very moment that in the last couple of years I had put on 80+ Lbs. and in the last six months probably 40 of those Lbs. Iwas totally turned on and in love with this mutual gaining with my girlfriend when we were together eating in large consumptions and teasing each other with our new fat figures but when I was out in public or when we were around her friends I was totally embarrassed for both of us. It was a crazy experience while it lasted.

But so I can definitely understand how the initial weight gain for your friend no matter how big of a change he could have been oblivious to it.