I just remembered this time when I was in college. In the dorm I overheard this guy telling a really beautiful chubby (at least 40 lbs "overweight" I'm guesing) gal that she looked great, and would look fantastic if she lost some weight. She seemed to take it as a complement, but it sounded pretty rude to me.
I had a chance to talk to her after he left and really wanted to say something like "You look great the way you are. Don't change a thing!". But I barely knew her, and was afraid of coming across as rude. I said nothing.
Opinions? Should I have said what I wanted? Or something else? Or was I wise to have said nothing?
13 years
