General

Ff's impact on you?

Well, around the time that I officially joined the site, I lurked unofficially for a few years...I was in a pretty negative state of mind.

Right after graduating high-school I found myself totally friendless. Partially due to betrayals in my senior year, and partially because most of my friends were either a year younger or a year older.

But anyway, the basic point is, FantasyFeeder is a part of what helped stabilize me during that time.

It also convinced me that I wasn't bat-shit insane for wanting to gain weight, so that's a plus.
12 years

Ff's impact on you?

fat apple wrote:
FF is fun!

I always have a good time playing around the boards, meeting peeps and checking out the stories. Maybe ogling a picture here and there. smiley

I think this site is great. I'm glad the powers that be came together to create a space for fat lovers and fat freaks to meet and greet, make friends, swap stories, find support if they need it and have some fun.

So thanks to the FF team and all the members who make this a happy stop on the internetz super highway!


Yes, Glory be to Hiccupx! Haha, I really believe I owe the site's founder a lot just for making this place. *as per what I mentioned above*
12 years

Ff's impact on you?

1Dan001 wrote:
I have actively added to the site for a couple years now.
Honestly this site made me really comfortable about my feelings.
I am so much happier knowing that this IS normal.

There a men & women out there who prefer having more of eachother to love! So cool.


I am at a stage however now, where for a couple of weeks actually I am wondering, 'have I soaked up everything I have wanted and even needed from this site?'

I don't know if others ever feel it, but now I am so comfortable with all this. I know it's a normal list to like bigger bodies and for many to want a bigger body.
BUT I almost feel like I torment myself now thinking that I could actually make a relationship happen. Logistically it is so hard.
Not only distance but even just the way messages work.
Not sure if people even get your message
And of course, never sure of others intentions or their own stage of life / acceptance.


So in summary, I have and will always love this site, but I do sometimes feel I may now have utilized it for everything I needed to be me and am now that more complete person.
Perhaps when it comes to meeting someone however, I may just have to wait on fate smiley


I agree every word
12 years

Ff's impact on you?

Purple Sneakers wrote:
Indeed - although I travel around a bit, I do hate how far we are from everyone else. Being on here at least makes me feel a part of the 'community' despite the distance.


Yeah, the distance is an absolute **** of a thing, very much so.
12 years

Ff's impact on you?

Bonnie Aslan Lion wrote:
Erm......I got a lot fattah....smiley
You certainly have. You were relatively slim when you joined first time, looking at you now, what a terrific gain, so sexy.

As for me, made me realise that I should get involved, rather than just lurking. the meetups are so good, I just love them.
12 years