marzopolis wrote:mrxp22 wrote:marzopolis wrote:
I thought that this was supposed to be a forum populated by people who were encouraging extreme obesity, not agreeing with the tide of the culture that this girl would be better off if she lost weight. /snip
As much as this is a fetish site, the girl is clearly unhappy and in desperate need of help. Because of her seeming compulsion to continually eat, it makes me wonder if she has a variation on Prada-Willi syndrome. If so, how can you possibly think that having a feeder boyfriend/husband is the right way for her to go?
It seems like she wants a life and not to be immobile. All you're really thinking about is what your own desires want and not the feelings of the person affected by it. Please don't tell me that you're serious.
Your answer is as presumptive as mine- the point is that those here who are geographically in the UK are not willing to really reach out and investigate the situation. Nothing is more pathetic than a woman (or man) who grows fatter who doesn't want to be fat at all- I know, I was married to one who hated being fat when I never knew that there was any other attitude extant.
There again, georgia having a lover or husband caressing her soft body, kissing her rolls, massaging and helping her walk (no one need be immobile at any weight- even if they spend half there lives in a special pool) MAY open up her self-perspective to a dimension that one-sided society never offers.
There are many possibilities for a situation like this happeneing- and I question who is feeding her, caring for her, looking after her best interests- certainly not any red blooded "FA" Englishmen!
And "we", as a collective group, should visit her site on fcebook especially those of us who are lucky to be blessed with over 500 lb girlfriends who have made successful and mutually satisfying lives for the both of us. Unless we demonstrate to detractors that we can have happy, romance-filled and mutually satisfying lives, this preference (eroneously referred to as a "fetish" ) of ours will continue to be thought of as an emotional sickness and reverse the gains it has made over the last 70 years.
I have little I can add to this ,but
I agree with almost all of this.
I have ,in the past been blessed with a way over 500lb girlfriend, but it seemed that the outside world was against her,the reaction being agoraphobia.I think Georgia must feel the same way at times and deserves at least some dignity,and at best true happiness