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Yes. I don't go out to impress the public, *** the public. I just want to have a happy life with someone I'd love.

Before my illness set in I had proudly dated about half a dozen BBWs and two high end SSBBWs,formed LTRs with two,but having a big girl on my arm really made me feel good...

I never understood people who worried about what their friends or relatives might think, if they where seen with a larger Woman.
Life is for living and it's to short to spend worrying about what others might think. If i did hook up with a woman on here, i wouldn't care what others might potentialy think and would certainly have no problem with taking her out or being seen with her.

I really dont think any guys are going to come on and admit to only liking fat girls in private.

I admit that NOW I'm ready to admit my fetish and dating big girls...but only if they like this world, not the gaining side...they like being big. But I admit that the first years I discovered this world I never think I could change my tastes

Well, don't put down skinny women. I think the point of the post is about men who refuse to date BBWs even though they prefer them, as opposed to someone who may fall in love with someone who happens to be skinny.

I would like to date a bbw but to date I haven't had much luck with it. My problem is because I'm too damn shy I always have a tendency to screw it up whether they're big or not lol. Ironically the few female friends that I have ever opened up to who were bigger have friend-zoned me before I ever had a chance it seems.

Yesss I agree with this so much !
my sister used to be really big and had a boyfriend and no one ever questioned why they were together or said anything negative, over here if someone is rude about your girlfriend most guys would just punch you out, like its not accepted.
no one says things about other peoples partners really and if you do youre seen as a total ***.

Ive also noticed that alot of guys are happy to be seen with a fat girl around strangers but dont want their family and friends to meet her, I had one person meet with me and instead of just telling their family they met up with a girl they made up some story. so lame. like I dont get why you wouldnt just say you were meeting a girl, its not like you have to say OH AND BTW SHES FAT JUST FYI

I never dated a girl under 200 lbs. Then again, I was to shy to date any girl untill the age of 20, mainly because I was too insecure to admit I like big girls. It was hard to come out of the fat closet (or pantry if you will), but it was the best thing I ever did!

Layla's comment about family is very interesting.

When it comes to strangers, who really cares what they think. After all in this current age, going out with a fat woman is hardly unusual. Friends may rib you a bit, but at the end of the day they are more likely to be concerned as to whether the new partner their friend has will stop them going out with their friends, more than what she looks like.

Family is different, I know as a parent that I'm concerned whether my children have chosen the right partner for many reasons. Therefore, if the relationship between parents and their children is good and even if the parent accepts their childrens choice, the children themselves may also look for a certain amount of approval from their parents.

I know that my mum never particularly liked my wife, for many reasons (my mum was very much a Peggy Mitchell type of person). But part of that was also that she thought I must have low self esteem for choosing a fat woman to be my wife. Although it was my choice and my mum knew that, she would often ask me am I really happy. I didn't want a rift to develop between my wife and my mum, however, they never did get on.

Cutting out your family in favour of a partner is very isolating and for certainly about 5-6 years I didn't see my mum that often, or attend many family gatherings. My dad also didn't particularly like my wife either, but was less vocal about it, but my wife knew how he felt.

Parents have no right to choose who their children want as partners, but sometimes they know their children more than the children know ourselves, but perhaps express themselves poorly at times. This can lead to a defensive nature when it comes to children wanting their partners to meet their parents.