Gaining

I would not blame it on size.

Lots of people have lots of different preferences.

I usually look at the person's profile and ask them about anything that sounds interesting. For many, it's not how big YOU are, but how big THEY are. Or will be.

Some encouragers/admirers/feeders will only talk to gainers and feeders in a certain weight range. And those people generally have that posted on their "About Me" section in their profile. But, some people are flakes, and you'd do well to remember that. Often times there are some circumstances that will call some people away at a moments notice too.

But above all, some people have short attention spans.