General

Just meet them in a public place with lots of other people around
like out to dinner or lunch or something
and just keep meeting like that until you become comfortable enough to be alone together

it's what happens when a girl posts some pics. Receiving lot of messages...there is always something wrong, and most of people go away from here.
So, speaking for me, so many times, I try to start a conversation or messaging only because maybe I like the way the person present herself or only talking about fat lifestyle and no answer, only 2 words when it's good.
In a lot of profiles girls says that like talking and not receveing short and trite messsages, but it seems that being polite doesn't work. Uff.

So, you'd rather be skinny and not have a feeder BEFORE you put your life in danger?

Oh... wait... You'd rather be skinny THAN put your life in danger.

It all makes sense now!!!!