Gaining

Sethman, that depends on what you mean by 'average'. If it's the median, then yes, by definition, 50% are above and 50% below. But in a skewed distribution (e.g. weight, where you get people 500+ lbs over the mean, but very few 100 under) then you can quite easily get more than 50% below the arithmetic mean (which is what most people mean, aha, when they say 'average'. Chi-squared distributions are a good example of a distribution where the mean exceeds the median.

Statistics-based pedantry notwithstanding, I will be keeping an eye on this thread, and I will pull it if it degenerates into personal insults. So play nice.

A lot of the comments and posts I see from guys towards women are completely rude, or just plain creepy, that's generally the reason why girls never reply on here is because they have to wade through all this other bullshit and the rest of us get lumped in with it. On a related note, nobody likes it when you play the victim either, it's not very attractive. If you want to get girls to talk to you treat them like normal human beings not pieces of meat. Hang in chat and show them you care about them for stuff other than this fetish. It's really not that hard.

When the point about messages was brought up, and the recipients (almost always of the female variety) tending to get buried in the nonsense, and vapid messages there were no truer words spoken. With the possible exception being Sethman.

On the rare occasions that I do take the time to sift through some Female Feeder profiles I always try to put some of "me" into the messages I send. I don't want to come across as single-minded or simplistic. But, the deluge of creep-tastic one-liners have probably completely outshone most of my messages and resulted in mass deletion more often than not. I have occasionally gotten a reply on messages I've sent, but the vast majority of actual correspondence that I have was started with the FFA/female feeder in question messaging me first.

In that regard, I've found that for me the best way to proceed is to make myself visible by posting in the forums, putting up photos and videos, and waiting for the ladies to message me.

being straight and a male feedee is pretty bad i agree..but if ur bi or gay there are alot of guys out there for you i realize this is prlly the wrong board for that tho lol