Gaining

Hi all,
I'm lucky as a FA that my wife in the past 10 years has indulged in periodic,deliberate gains[partly due to us both discovering sites like this one.]

She is presently on a smallish gain in preparation for my birthday.I normally ask her to gain for about 2 months prior to my birthday & she is delighted to comply!

She is presently about 200lb at 5'1 with a large belly[great!]& is also adding size to her butt.

She's a busy mum as well so what I'm interested in trying to encourage the gain without putting pressure on her.

She enjoys gaining a lot & loves to play with her belly when we are "romantic".It's a great situation but I have some reservations about the long-term health impact if she continues to gain[She has no health issues from her weight presently].

It's a difficult situation as she is bigger than ever but I'm unsure if I should encourage an even bigger gain & would be grateful for any input.

Thanks guys/gals!

Thanks for the replies..I think I'll keep it low key but make sure the battenburg cakes are in plain sight!

Absolutely!! Pressure will kill it. Just let it be natural - being that she already knows and is happy to do so, she'll do it without pressure. Just making sure she's well fed will do it. Food can even be a part of the 'romantic' experience or a part of time leading up to it.

Enjoy!

As far as the health, it's not so much the number on the scale as the lifestyle and the type of food one eats... you can get fat on healthy good stuff too. If she's active and eats healthy, she'll be healthy, even if she's heavy.

Thanks! Good advice not to pressure-She loves to eat & snacks constantly.
I think if I leave her to her own devices she'll gain an even greater amount by Christmas,which will be awesome!
Not sure how she'll stop though...I'll let her decide;hopefully not for a long time!

How she'll stop... well, the larger one gets, the more energy it takes to sustain the body. In other words, the bigger and heavier a person gets,the more calories they require to do the basic normal walking, standing, etc. So, If someone's energy intake is more then they need, they will gain weight until an equilibrium is reached. If you see her rate of gain slowing even more, then you'll know she's close to that point. If you'd like her bigger but don't want to pressure her then you'll just have to encourage her to start enjoying more then she normally does without sounding like you're trying to. That's an entirely different topic (which I'm happy to discuss if you'd like - there are lots of ways!) You may also get lucky and she may gradually end up enjoying more then she does right now... given that she likes to eat and knows you're okay with it, portion sizes may gradually increase, she may indulge in seconds more and more often... stuff like that

Sounds like you two will be be enjoying not only lots of good food but lots of good time together as well Congrats!

Thanks guys-Still gently encouraging her & the results are great!

I've sort of decided I'd like a bigger weight gain so any tips for her to go beyond her current eating levels would be much appreciated.

Please bear in mind she snacks quite a lot but mostly during the evening & I'd like more indulgence earlier in the day possibly.

Ideally I'd like her to grow to 250.

What weight is she at. Ow

She's plumping up nicely at about 210.

oh man, when is your birthday? how much longer will she be gaining for? she going to maintain or lose after your birthday? How she liking being heavier?

I'm a week off & she'll gain throughout Christmas.
After that I doubt she'll lose any weight.She enjoys the fat but secretly sometimes I think she'd like to be lighter,due to the usual media/society pressures.
I always tell her to enjoy what she's got & relax!