Gaining

If she doesn't want to, you don't get her to gain weight.

If she wants to, let her decide how to.

You put it out there but don't pressure her and don't make too big a deal out of it. You have to say it in a way that doesn't sound like you're unhappy with her current weight.

Women usually don't want to gain weight, but they do sometimes get turned on to gaining by their bfs, so it's worth a try.

YOU DON'T!

Most people do not want to gain. If you want someone who wants to gain, find someone who is a feedee.

If it is essential to have someone gain weight, do not look in the general population for a girl friend.

IT WAS A JOKE.

*exasperated*

Luvtofeed, very nice. Your GF is to be commended! How big is she & you willing to get? Also, you may want to chart her progress with measurements as well. Just a thought. Good luck to you both!

wesleyv1, your post was clearly a humorous attempt to emphasise the fact that you don't 'get' a girl fat, but always bear in mind what you think and what other people think may be different, and not everyone may appreciate or understand your sense of humour.

Murphy, you made the point very precisely and succintly, and you should have left it there.

foxglove, thanks for introducing some sanity into the thread.

I've been a bit busy recently and haven't been up to speed on my forum mod duties, for which I apologise. I've deleted all the back-and-forth name-calling posts apart from the clincher from foxglove, as they serve no purpose in this thread or the board. You do not get points for having the last word, so don't get hung up on it.

Any further pouting or general brattiness on this thread will see it binned. Kapische?

Very similar experience. Definitely this. IF you want to keep your relationship, then get ready, and I mean "GET ***ING READY" to be patient.