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What I really want to know is, are there any "tell-tail" signs that would allow someone to pick an FA, FFA, Feedee, or Feeder out of a crowd?

As time goes on, I become more and more convinced that Fa's FFa's, Feedees, and Feeders are all over the place.

I am interested in ideas about how to pick an Fa, FFa, Feeder, and Feedee out of a crowd.

At this point I'm about 90% sure at least 1 in 10 people (and probably more) is turned on in some way with/about fat, weight gain, and over eating.

I don't usually go out of my way to advertise my attraction to fat women or that irrepressible desire to gain weight myself and do things that cause me to gain weight.

If you were to meet me in person, you probably wouldn't pick me out as a feedee/gainer, fa, and feeder.

I am a... probably more than reasonably good looking ... guy.... and at the moment, a lot of people would probably see me as a little fat.

I used to be in really good shape. In a lot of ways I still am. I like having the strength and energy to do the things I want to to.

I don't go out of my way to hide my desires, but I don't broadcast them either.

I've tried waiting to actively gain until I found the right woman.... really, I did... but sometimes I just couldn't help myself....

So...

What are things you have noticed about people you meet offline that told you, "This person is a feedee, feeder, fa, or ffa"?

I'm a really big guy. So I notice a lot of looks, disgusted and (I think) otherwise.

Occasionally, especially if I happen to be visiting an all you can eat place, I'll notice a girl (or a guy) looking at me in a way that can't exactly be classified as repulsed. Perhaps they're in awe of my size, or are just so shocked at how much I'm eating/how fat I am that it hasn't progressed to repulsion yet. But I prefer to think they're intrigued by what they're seeing.

I'll also occasionally see people gently pressing their friends or bf/gfs to eat more.

Here's hoping that there really are more of us out there.

Well don't be so shy, us the corpulent among us are rather bashful too.

Hamburger and onion rings... nice.

These are some pretty good ideas. In the past, I have sometimes noticed things about someone that made me wonder if a certain person was a feeder or feedee, but I never took it upon myself to try to verify it.

I've been thinking it might be kind of fun to have a small cadre of local and offline friends who are feeders, feedees, fa's, ffa's, gainers, and foodies...

...but any way you slice it, it'd be nice to be able to pick one of "us" out of a crowd.

I'll add another tell-tail sign....

Fat people who don't seem to mind being fat.

There was a guy here who had made some pins to signify feeder/feedee-ness. They had the Neapolitan ice cream colors on them. I would've definitely bought one if I'd had some money to burn.