Gaining

I do know of feedees (even met one in person!) who chose not to get fat or who gained some and then decided it wasn't for them and lost the weight.

So it's certainly possible to be a feedee and not get fat. At least for some.

I doubt the bloggers are a representative sample of the latent feedees out there.

But yes, it's certainly possible you'll give into the urge.

Have you read "Deciding to Get Fat" on my site?

You are right....if you look around the boards you'll find a lot of fantasies about the 'evil feeder' kidnapping someone and forcing them to get fat, or things like that.

Note that a lot of hte people who have those fantasies will choose not to get fat on their own, but other will in varying degrees.

Also, you can get a little fat, medium fat, etc. Giving in some doesn't have to mean you give in all the way and grow huge.

Let's say that there was a pill you could take that would give you an uncontrollable appetite. As soon as you took it, you'd have no choice but to get fat.

Would you take it?

Sounds like you've made your decision! Just pretend you've taken the pill already.