luvschubyangels wrote:
That's definitely a huge part of it for me (no pun intended).
Spoiling someone and taking care of them. Overfeeding is like making sure someone has everything they need, and more. If someone was staying over at my apartment for instance, I would make sure the temperature was right, and they had enough blankets, and had towels, a toothbrush, etc. Strangely, to me, overfeeding is just another part of that kind of hospitality so to speak. I don't know if I'm stating that in a way that makes sense.
I like it the other way around too, I like protective, generous men. Not feeders though, as I'm losing weight, but being generous otherwise.
Since I'm very attracted to round, plump bodies, it definitely works out. To me, if a guy gets fat when we're dating, that means he's happy, content, and well taken care of.
Fattening a guy purposely is not only very erotic to me, but it's like physical evidence of deeply loving someone.
I go for him being sub occasionally, but not all the time, but as part of that, if he lets me change his body, even control it for a while, it's a demonstration of complete trust in me. If you let someone do something to you that is going to make you vastly less attractive to most of the opposite sex, that's a whole lotta trust that the person will stick around. Illogical perhaps, but there is it.
That's definitely a huge part of it for me (no pun intended).
Spoiling someone and taking care of them. Overfeeding is like making sure someone has everything they need, and more. If someone was staying over at my apartment for instance, I would make sure the temperature was right, and they had enough blankets, and had towels, a toothbrush, etc. Strangely, to me, overfeeding is just another part of that kind of hospitality so to speak. I don't know if I'm stating that in a way that makes sense.
I like it the other way around too, I like protective, generous men. Not feeders though, as I'm losing weight, but being generous otherwise.
Since I'm very attracted to round, plump bodies, it definitely works out. To me, if a guy gets fat when we're dating, that means he's happy, content, and well taken care of.
Fattening a guy purposely is not only very erotic to me, but it's like physical evidence of deeply loving someone.
I go for him being sub occasionally, but not all the time, but as part of that, if he lets me change his body, even control it for a while, it's a demonstration of complete trust in me. If you let someone do something to you that is going to make you vastly less attractive to most of the opposite sex, that's a whole lotta trust that the person will stick around. Illogical perhaps, but there is it.
whow that´s so lavely said and written perfectly .
I couldn´t have stated it better as i exactly like all those thoughts and behaviors you mentioned.
All this trust and love only enables such kinky things as feeding the other one maybe just a little more than he would like ^^ this little evil more i find so arousing besides all this lovely sweet caring thing .
For me it shows a little bit how far can we go and how miuch do we love each other cause we allow some other thing we would never do with others !
^^ Hehe bit even having such a perfect gf i would try from time to time to get in shape again when my belly and her love for me and my love for pleasing her in getting nice and chubby (but i like it , too but am a bit ambivalent about getting really chubby maybe gaining more than 15kg or so i would get worried i couldn´t get in shape and ppl realize i´m becoming a realy fatty )is getting out of hand ^^
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