I'd prefer a much lighter partner, both for the purposes of attraction and just for practicality.
I'm rather...massive. 580lbs to be exact, and with a partner near that weight I'm not certain sex would even be possible. (And it would almost certainly destroy my bed to try as I'm nearly too much for it on my own.)
I like the idea of contrast; someone much thinner than me pressed against my soft flabby belly...sinking in slightly, me feeling my love-handles enveloping her a little. It's a very erotic thought.
As for taking off my clothes in front of such a woman...*swallows* I don't know; I would be nervous, and not only because I'm so fat (I'm also a virgin), but if I was positive of her attraction I'm sure I'd be able to take off my clothes.
As for her disrobing in front of me, again...new experience. Though I'm sure I'd be interested.
Sex with a slim woman seems more practical to me, not to mention (as stated above) a bit more appealing sexually (part of my fetish is actually feeling massive in comparison to things, which is why I like the idea of getting stuck in doorways and wearing tight clothes). If I were to try with a woman close to my weight there'd be the issue of things possibly not reaching, and then the combined weight of the both of us would likely crush most bed frames.
I'm rather...massive. 580lbs to be exact, and with a partner near that weight I'm not certain sex would even be possible. (And it would almost certainly destroy my bed to try as I'm nearly too much for it on my own.)
I like the idea of contrast; someone much thinner than me pressed against my soft flabby belly...sinking in slightly, me feeling my love-handles enveloping her a little. It's a very erotic thought.
As for taking off my clothes in front of such a woman...*swallows* I don't know; I would be nervous, and not only because I'm so fat (I'm also a virgin), but if I was positive of her attraction I'm sure I'd be able to take off my clothes.
As for her disrobing in front of me, again...new experience. Though I'm sure I'd be interested.
Sex with a slim woman seems more practical to me, not to mention (as stated above) a bit more appealing sexually (part of my fetish is actually feeling massive in comparison to things, which is why I like the idea of getting stuck in doorways and wearing tight clothes). If I were to try with a woman close to my weight there'd be the issue of things possibly not reaching, and then the combined weight of the both of us would likely crush most bed frames.
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