Gaining

"It's not easy" especially if your younger and naturlly skinny like someone posted earlier.

It took me till I was 25 yrs. old or so to gain weight even though I tried all the time through lifting weights while I was younger and weight gain shakes etc.

For me it was an age and metabolism thing and before I recognized it a few people commented that I had not seen in a few years that I got fat. Well I cetainly was not hugely fat but compared to my thin sinewy muscular old self....I now had a belly, bulkier musle build and a fatter face. I did however over the course of the next couple years get pretty fat with the help of my fat girlfriend feeding us huge fattening meals all the time and us living together along with a desk job and no athletic activity anymore.

So I guess patience is a virtue and it would certainly help if you are younger. When your metabolism changes the sky can be your limit.

These days I can workout 4 days a week do some cardio and all types of ab crunches and I have not dipped below 225 Lbs. in a year or longer while I am watching what I eat. Currently I have not been watching what I eat on and off for the last 4-6 months and boy do the Lbs. pile on fast. My gut gets in the way all the time and my big appetite keeps growing. I weighed myself the other day after a month of eating, drinking and more eating like a pig and I am up to 243 Lbs. It's pretty much the most I have weighed and I have not been lifting any weight which surely makes me gain a good 5-10 Lbs. when I do. My Gut is the biggest and roundest it has ever been measuring in the other night at 47" around the biggest point. I honestly feel if I kept eating this way in the next few months I would be over 260 Lbs. Part of me gets intrigued but I never in my wildest dreams thought I would ever even weigh close to 220 Lbs. let alone 243 Lbs.

After I eat which typically is some huge amounts these days my belly is so full, huge and tight moving around or sitting I feel like I am 9 months pregnant.

You can look forward to this stuff! I am not sure I would like this all the time though I have always been into women gaining weight and getting fat especially my wife. All of a sudden I cant believe how big I am getting and kind of like it but feel I might have to try and control it or even have to go on a diet for the first time in my life, which is kind of scary to think about because at Lunch time today I was so hungry I could have eaten two entrees and had desert I was so hungry not to mention if I have to start watching my portion control.

I think most that have had their metabolism change can tell you that all of a sudden they could start Packing on the Lbs.

I am still not sure if my wife likes my "way bigger Gut". I guess I like it some of the time and other times it is a bit enbarrassing but nobody has mentioned it other than my wife recently. Maybe it turns her on a bit when she is buzzed up and other times she just ignores it.

The other night when we were getting intimate (OK) "Sex crush", I did almost crush her, she said nothing but my big old gut was bumping and banging into her not to mention all the extra weight on top of her, she must have been thinking "wow" she seemed pretty turned on by all the extra weight and flesh against her but she never openly said anything.

I also think that because she has gained some 15 Lbs. in the last 4+ months and that maybe she feels a little less self conscious about her own fatter figure.

I to would love to see my wife really fatten up!

Great hearing about you and your wife. It's very cool knowing your wife wants you to fatten up. Does she ever tease you with eating a lot or make comments about your belly? So, your wife is into the mutual gaining but does she like you gaining or herself gaining more?

Growinluhandles.....Funny thing is my wife is definitely aware of me liking her to gain weight in fact I almost over played it way back when always trying to get her to eat more and disucuss weight gain and subtly carress her big lower bell roll etc.

When she would gain weight I would tell her how beautiful she looked and numerous times she said "You just say that because I have gained so much weight and I am a fat cow"! Other times back then while she was heavier she would definitely get more horny and when she was, she would use her weight gain to her advantage with me by seducing me a bit. She would come over after her shower after drying off and with a pair of tiny Panties and a consticitng tank top that rose up on her belly because it's new size, sit on my lap with her huge soft tan thighs spread wide across me and her newly fattened belly spilling out onto her lap and say "is this heavy enough for ya". I would be a bit strained in my voice with the extra weight I was not used to resting on top of me and say "No, pretty light still" and then she replied "you better watch out, you might have a huge Fat wife pretty soon"! When she did these type of things it would put me over the edge and I loved it. Shortly after the next day or so she would be out of the mood and be a little grossed out at times when I would discuss weight or gaining or touch or squeeze belly, she would say "stop, I am a Fat pig and I am going on a diet" I would say "you look great what are you talking aboutt", she would then say "That's sick how could you like me so unhealthy and fat, all I do is eat like a Fat Pig"?

So I guess she thought she was fat at the times when I thought I wanted her to get fatter not to mention she would not even believe it if she knew how much fat I really liked or how fat I would love to see her get.

So, for the last several years I have toned it down a lot regarding discussion of weight. It was probably 2 1/2 Years ago when she had one of her biggest gains and held on to it for a long time. She was pretty heavy for her and I loved it, I only really discussed the topic of weight when she brought it up or when she would mention something in a less derogatory way toward herself like "that's kind of tough to do with my big ass" and I would be gentle and slap stick and say "Big and Beautiful." During this time I think she felt a little out of control with her eating and kind of relaxed into the fact maybe she wouldn't be able to lose the weight and just have a care free attitude and eat, eat eat.During this time I remember I was at my thinnest in a long time around 205 Lbs. and she was at one of her heaviest without being post pregnancy. She kept eating and gaining and I was in heaven. She was Fat, Hungry all the time, more compassionate and definitely more horny. She had an annual check up with her Doctor that she brought up to me and she told me that her Doctor had been warning her for the last two years to watch her weight because she was concerned how much she gained each year and that once you pass thirty statistics of women losing all this extra weight is very unlikely. Maybe this was the reason she felt the point of no return and to just go with it over the last two years and not try to diet just eat and be happy. Then she told me she really got lectured because she gained even more this year and the Doctor said do you realize you have gained 43 Lbs. in the last two years. The doctor then told her she really has to watch it and try to lose some weight because her blood pressure was the highest it has been and if it gets any higher she would have to put her on some medicine to control it. Over the next year she lost weight and continued to.

I am currently at the biggest I have been since I have been with her and she is creeping up the scale herself probably 20 Lbs. away from where she was before. Maybe I can change her thinking and we can have if not a intentional mutual gaining relationship on her part but if she keeps fattening up along with my consistently increasing *** we will see what it's like to have a half ton of weight bouncing around in bed together.

I am still waiting for more comments from her regarding my huge gut! She see's me eating like a pig with my huge distended belly and says nothing. She did mention however about a football clip we saw on TV the other night "that guy look's like an older Fat man except his belly doesn't stick out as far yet!"

Wonder what that sign would be?

To the original poster.....one way to think is to think of the advice for losing weight and adjusting it to your needs. Like planning, many reducing diets have you plan your food for the day so you don't have too many calories. You may need to plan to make sure you have enough.

See, if your appetite works properly you will not be hungry after 'enough' food, so you might forget to snack. But if you plan your eating you will never be without food, and will eat even when not hungry :

Good luck!

In the past at least with me I noticed if I ate more than normal or introduced more calories to my avergae daily intake in a matter of two weeks I would start to notice the gain. Mostly in my body and the way clothes fit etc. will see how my several months of eating out of control will show up.