My wife and I were away last weekend for a friend of hers big formal Birthday celebration.
We were dressed up for two days straight and her friend had a professional photographer shoot her party events for two nights.
I just saw the pictures and was in shock. Mind you I have lost weight over the last several months and thought my wife has as well. After viewing the pictures we looked pretty heavy compared to the rest of the 50+ guests. Most of the women were skinny to slightly chubby and my wife happened to be the prettiest but to my surprise probably one of the heaviest.....in which I feel she is much to skinny yet. I on the other hand was probably the second heaviest guy there.
It was a complete shock to me seeing myself in pictures next to other thinner guys and realizing that people might consider me Fat. This is after I have lost weight in the past several months.....I wonder how I would of looked in these pictures with the extra 20+ Lbs. that was around my gut. My wife even alluded to the fact that I really didn't need another appetizer etc. that I ordered a couple times during the weekend which she has never really done.
We have not been out in a Formal fashion like these events in a long time and it really made me think of if I was as heavy as I was a few months ago someone might have even commented how big I was.
My wife and I looked stuffed into our Formal clothes much more than the majority and I couldn't get over how puffy both of our faces looked.
Crazy thing is when I look at my wife right now..... I want her to put on a good 40-50 Lbs. I think the Formal thing around skinnier people and seeing pics has to go because my wife probably weighs around 160 Lbs currently at 5' 3"..... and I am currently 230+ Lbs. when just a few months ago I was over 250 Lbs. She never really commented on my weight negatively only in a little joking way a couple of times.
After seeing these pics I think she is going to talk to me about us going on a diet..... she was already hinting around that I tend to eat to much. I have to believe it was because she was looking at me next to other men that were weighing around 170-180 Lbs. tops
M wife is unbelievably Beautiful with a gorgeous shaped figure and when she gains weight it only looks so much better and sexy....... although it was quite a shock seeing her next to women quite a bit taller all with huge 4"+ heels on along with herself but she probably out weighed them by 40 Lbs. and it really looks noticeable with those comparisons.
Anyone go through similar experiences like this?
We were dressed up for two days straight and her friend had a professional photographer shoot her party events for two nights.
I just saw the pictures and was in shock. Mind you I have lost weight over the last several months and thought my wife has as well. After viewing the pictures we looked pretty heavy compared to the rest of the 50+ guests. Most of the women were skinny to slightly chubby and my wife happened to be the prettiest but to my surprise probably one of the heaviest.....in which I feel she is much to skinny yet. I on the other hand was probably the second heaviest guy there.
It was a complete shock to me seeing myself in pictures next to other thinner guys and realizing that people might consider me Fat. This is after I have lost weight in the past several months.....I wonder how I would of looked in these pictures with the extra 20+ Lbs. that was around my gut. My wife even alluded to the fact that I really didn't need another appetizer etc. that I ordered a couple times during the weekend which she has never really done.
We have not been out in a Formal fashion like these events in a long time and it really made me think of if I was as heavy as I was a few months ago someone might have even commented how big I was.
My wife and I looked stuffed into our Formal clothes much more than the majority and I couldn't get over how puffy both of our faces looked.
Crazy thing is when I look at my wife right now..... I want her to put on a good 40-50 Lbs. I think the Formal thing around skinnier people and seeing pics has to go because my wife probably weighs around 160 Lbs currently at 5' 3"..... and I am currently 230+ Lbs. when just a few months ago I was over 250 Lbs. She never really commented on my weight negatively only in a little joking way a couple of times.
After seeing these pics I think she is going to talk to me about us going on a diet..... she was already hinting around that I tend to eat to much. I have to believe it was because she was looking at me next to other men that were weighing around 170-180 Lbs. tops
M wife is unbelievably Beautiful with a gorgeous shaped figure and when she gains weight it only looks so much better and sexy....... although it was quite a shock seeing her next to women quite a bit taller all with huge 4"+ heels on along with herself but she probably out weighed them by 40 Lbs. and it really looks noticeable with those comparisons.
Anyone go through similar experiences like this?
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