Gaining

Putting a percentage basis on this I would say....There are certain times on a monthly basis where my sexual attraction/drive is around 95% linked to fatness and weight gain with my wife or in general. I can't get enough weight gain or fat in my life during these times.

Other times it goes down to maybe around 80%. With that said Fat and weight gain are always the majority base desire in some way for sexual arousal.

I look at a skinny attractive woman and I will imagine how much better she would look if she gained weight! I even start imagining where she would start to get fat first etc. Sometimes I will even imagine her getting really fat and I can almost picture her in my mind exactly her with maybe 50 Lbs. more.

I will see my wife changing into some clothes after just taking a shower and will admire some weight she has gained recently and her struggle to get into a pair of jeans that used to fit fine and when she finally gets them buttoned she has a several inches of tan soft fat belly spilling out not to mention her love handles hanging over the sides of the low cut waist band. This puts me into a complete crazy arousal and all I want to do is go up to her and ravish her.

So, obviously the complete ultimate for any of us FA's who are into weight gain would be to have our wives into this as much as we are!!!

My fantasies have always been about fat stuff, with sex seldom showing up. I thought I had no interest in pornuntil I stumbled on some fat porn (I still have little interest, unless there is a good fat story included). But when the opportunity for sex arose, hey wow it was great, and I wanted plenty more, even without fat stuff involved. Married close to two decades, to someone who is a folder but not into fat stuff, and still find my fantasies are fat related, but real sex is fine without the fat stimuli. (Ok, sex life is not what it was twenty years ago, but that is pretty normal I think)