Gaining

As your feedee grows have the 2 of you decided how how big she will get before she doesn't have to work anymore? She doesn't have to do house work when she gets beyond a certain size?

If I was ever lucky enough to find a real feedee assuming average height I would say when she reaches 450 lbs
if she was beginning to find it difficult to work because of her size I wouldn't expect her to go to work if she didn't want to and when she reached 500+ lbs I wouldn't expect her to be helping with house work if she didn't want to.

I feel my feedee would have made a lot of significant physical changes in her life for us and as part of that relationship I should be making her life as easy as possible.

How does everybody else feel about this? How big would your feedee need to be before u think she shouldn't
have to work?

From a feedee perspective how big do you think you would be before you would find it difficult to work? If you are a feedee in/planning to be in a relationship do you have an expectation of eventually no longer
working?

It depends on a lot of things besides size, but I reckon the main criterion is : how much she can gain and still do her job?

Then the question is, what's her job? If she's a ballerina, the answer is maybe two pounds. If she does phone support or she's a circus fat lady, it would be a lot more.

We all have wonderful feeder/feedee fanatasies. I guess I am trying to understand the realities of the massive physical changes that she is going to experience as she goes from being an unnoticed and able to fit in any wheres part of society to being stared at, commented about and being unable to physically do some things that small people take for granted. Given that me as her partner and the person that wants her to physically be that way I would feel I have a responsibility to ensure that her life is as easy and comfortable as possible as she gives up a certain sense of "fitting in" to become what we both want her to be. I am quite happy if she wants to work but I would also be fine for her to stop working if she said "it is just getting too difficult" esp if she had a job that was physically demanding (and it became more so with each extra lb she had to move) SO I guess I was wondering from a feedees perspective do u anticipate a time when u would rather (need) stay home because your size made it difficult to work? Is it something u look forward to or something that u feel might be making u lose some independence?

Oh and pinkydear I would b more than happy to vacuum, clean and bend 4 u while u eat :-)