Hi people not sure if this has been brought up before but I was wondering if any one is having a problem with their friends about being a feeder or feedee?
Ok so a few years ago I was having dinner with my friends and we where talking about the kind of guys we like. At that point in time i was dating a online feedee and i had not told them. He was coming out again to see me and i wanted them to met him. I wasnt a shamed of him or being a feeder but I didnt know how they would reacted to my life choice.
When I told them what i was and who he was they looked at me with this blank staire and quickly threw out as many questions as they could. After answering them and my friends said they understood and where fine as long as i was happy.
Fast forward to last night, am having dinner with one of my friends and she randomly ask me if I would ever date a guy that "normal with muscles". I told her no as that was not the kind of guys i like; to which she replied " i had not given it a chance. What if the guy was madlly in love with you." I told her no again and she said ok and changed the subject.Ten mins later we where back on the same subject.
After 30 mins of explaining to her again what i was and what i like she finally gave in and said as long as i was happy.
I know she meant that with her heart as we have been friends since 4th grade and have been threw everything. But i still find myself wondering if she fulling understands.
So my question is have any of you guys had this happen? If so how are you dealing with it?
Ok so a few years ago I was having dinner with my friends and we where talking about the kind of guys we like. At that point in time i was dating a online feedee and i had not told them. He was coming out again to see me and i wanted them to met him. I wasnt a shamed of him or being a feeder but I didnt know how they would reacted to my life choice.
When I told them what i was and who he was they looked at me with this blank staire and quickly threw out as many questions as they could. After answering them and my friends said they understood and where fine as long as i was happy.
Fast forward to last night, am having dinner with one of my friends and she randomly ask me if I would ever date a guy that "normal with muscles". I told her no as that was not the kind of guys i like; to which she replied " i had not given it a chance. What if the guy was madlly in love with you." I told her no again and she said ok and changed the subject.Ten mins later we where back on the same subject.
After 30 mins of explaining to her again what i was and what i like she finally gave in and said as long as i was happy.
I know she meant that with her heart as we have been friends since 4th grade and have been threw everything. But i still find myself wondering if she fulling understands.
So my question is have any of you guys had this happen? If so how are you dealing with it?
11 years