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So I keep hearing this criminalizing of FAs and FFAs. I just would like to know what you mean when you say "I am not a fetish" to be honest. Because if my fetish is thinking your body is hot,even the parts that other people don't think are, I don't see a problem. If I thought abs were sexy a guy would never yell at me for thinking that's hot and wanting to see pictures of them without their shirts on. I just feel like if you make it a special case because you're fat then you proving that it matters and means something different if you're fat. Then by collateral you make us liking you're bodies a big deal and then it becomes a fetish, when really we're just people with a preference that happens to be you. But if we could all act like loving each other and being attracted to the outside was ok for everyone then we wouldn't have this problem. Maybe i'm wrong or don't get it bc i'm average sized. I just would like to know what you guys think on this issue. And if i'm wrong what can FA/FFA do to not be a sleez AND enjoy our sexuality like other people.

Thankyou LadyEjkua. That's what I was thinking. I obviously don't think anybody should feel like a sexual vessel and not a person that's horrible.